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3 Simple Strategies I Use to Quiet My Mind and Listen More Deeply in Relationships
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3 Simple Strategies I Use to Quiet My Mind and Listen More Deeply in Relationships

Episode 17: Relearn Relationships Podcast

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Are You Listening?

In this episode of Relearn Relationships, I share the three practical tools I use to quiet my mind to fully engage with my partner. These techniques have transformed how I show up in my relationships, and they can do the same for you.

Key Takeaways

Overthinking and Listening:

  • Overthinking doesn’t mean you’re a bad listener, but it can pull you out of the present moment.

  • Childhood patterns often create overthinking habits—give yourself grace as you learn to break them.

The Power of Body Language:

  • Open body posture signals receptiveness to others and also to yourself (e.g., uncrossed arms, palms facing up in your lap).

  • Maintain gentle eye contact to stay focused and help your partner feel heard.

Regulating Breath:

  • Slow, deep breaths help ground you and calm an anxious or racing mind.

  • Avoid sighing, which can send the wrong signal to your partner.

Summarizing to Clarify:

  • Summarizing and sharing what your partner said to ensure understanding and reduce miscommunication.

  • This method keeps you engaged in the conversation while minimizing assumptions.


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